"I wanna talk to you!"
"The last time we talked, Mr. Smith, you reduced
me to tears. I promise you, it won't happen again!"
from "Grace Kelly" by Mika
But it does happen again...
Relationships are the major focus of our life. From
the moment of birth onwards (and even before)
we live in relationships and change through them.
We all hope of fulfilling and comforting relationships
and we enjoy the presence of a dear person.
At the same time relationships are difficult and
demanding, causing pain, anger, hatred and fear,
triggering despair and destruction.
Statistical data emphasize the often observed fact
that many relationships have exspiry dates.
It is always rewarding to overcome conflicts and crises in a constructive way. For it may create fulfilling relationship, peace, freedom as well as new aspects of intimacy and - love.
It often is offending and grievous not to be capable of solving upcoming problems on your own. Well, yes, somebody could answer, but it is unlikely to be prepared for all and everything.
At least when you realise that you ran out of ideas, think about professional support.
If you are worried about endless arguing, reconciliation and quarrelling again, not knowing what to do next - seek for advice and help!